Don't just marry a Person because they have what you WANT.
Marry a person who has and can give you what you NEED.
Food, Shelter, and Clothing are NEEDS
Breakfast in London, Lunch in Kuwait, and Dinner in Dubai, A House on Banana island, and expensive Jewleries are WANTS
Don't marry a Man who promises to take you round the WORLD (a Want), but can't lead you and live with you by the WORD (a Need)
Don't Marry a Woman who has a beautiful face, shapes and curves (you WANT this) but can't give you Peace of Mind and be of help to your Life's Purpose (you NEED this)
Don't Marry a Man or Woman who promises you LUXURY but can't give you basic happiness, PEACE, freedom, LOVE, intimacy. Etc
You NEED a Man who won't abuse you physically or emotionally
You NEED a Woman who can respect and submit to you as you do the same for her.
If you marry a Person that you WANT, but don't NEED, a person who can fulfil your Wants but leave you with your Needs unmet, you will still end up frustrated and empty.
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Relax, there's good news, God always offers the full package.
In God, there is someone who can and will meet both your WANTS and NEEDS combined.
The secret is to Wait, Pray, and Discern .
Most importantly, your needs, not your wants should be your priority.
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